How to Use Anal Plugs? BDSM Game – Balance Between Shame and Pleasure

anal sex plug
BDSM Games - Butt Plug

During anal sex, butt plugs will undoubtedly increase stimulation and control. When the master gives orders, the slave will cooperate obediently, which not only adds to the fun, but also makes the sensory enjoyment of both partners increase dramatically!

In BDSM Game, Master’s Shameful Task – “butt plug”

In the BDSM master-servant game, when the master decides to challenge the slave’s shame and obedience limit, a special task is quietly arranged – “butt plug”. For the master, it is the embodiment of control, while for the slave, it is a delicate balance between shame and sexual pleasure.

Every step of the task reminds the slave that her body and mind belong to the master completely.

Whether it’s discreetly worn in public or continuously felt in private, the anal plug has become an indispensable part of this shameful challenge.

BDSM Master and Slave Games - Butt Plug

What Is A Butt Plug?

A butt plug is a sex toy used for anal sex. It enhances sexual pleasure by providing slight dilation and sustained pressure on the anus and rectum.

Its design is typically conical or spherical, featuring a wide base to prevent full insertion into the anus. From size and material to shape, anal plugs come in a wide variety of styles. Whether she wants to transform into a sexy fox or a cute bunny, the mere act of choosing a role is enough to set her heart racing.

Decorated butt plug
BDSM Butt Plugs and Accessories

1. How To Choose A Suitable Anal Plug

Selecting the right anal plug is an important task for any slave in the pursuit of sexual pleasure and obedience. More than just an SM toy, it is a key tool that enhances the BDSM experience. So, how to choose the perfect anal plug for yourself?

(1) Material of anal plug: safe and comfortable

Anal plugs come in a variety of materials. Due to the unique characteristics of the anal sphincter muscles, anal plugs tend to be firmer and more supportive than vibrators. Below are two common materials, but it’s also important to consider your personal sensitivity and comfort with different materials.

  • Metal material: Stainless steel or glass materials are easier to clean and provide a cool and pleasant experience due to their hardness and smooth surface.
  • Silicone material: Widely accepted because of its soft surface, it is suitable for novice sex slaves and is often equipped with a vibration function.

(2) Butt plug size, weight, shape

Choose plugs based on your own experience. For beginners, a small and smooth design can help prevent discomfort, making insertion and removal easier. As you become more experienced, you can gradually explore larger or weighted options to enhance the sensual experience.

Metal Butt Plug

(3) Other characteristics that can please her master

  • A butt plug with a handle and a tail?

In a BDSM master-slave play scenario, an anal plug with a handle allows for easier control over insertion and removal, while decorative tail attachments add a visual element that enhances the erotic appeal. These designs not only improve aesthetics but also make the plug more practical for use, elevating the overall atmosphere and interaction in BDSM play.

Anal beads
  • Remote control and vibration function

After reading the above analysis, I believe that sex slaves can find the most suitable anal plug style for themselves! While showing the best sexual pleasure in front of the master, remember that safety comes first and pleasure comes second, so that you can find your own sexual happiness in the BDSM master-slave game!

2. First experience: How to use an anal plug?

(1) lubricating

Butt plug in her ass

Choose an anal plug with the right material and size. Don’t forget that the anus cannot secrete fluids on its own. Lubricant is your best friend at this time. Apply enough lubricant around the anal plug and anus. This will make the entire anal sex process more comfortable and smooth. Find a position that makes you relax, and then slowly insert the anal plug.

(2) Relaxa is key

Anal insertion butt plug

Relax and choose a comfortable position, she can lie down or squat, and then slowly insert the butt plug. Keep the action gentle, as the butt plug gradually enters, she will feel the pleasure of the anus gradually expanding. The bottom design ensures that it stays safely in the right position, and there is no need to worry about it slipping into the anus completely.

(3) Adjust breathing

Anal sex with butt plug

When inserting the butt plug, be patient. Adjust breathing and relax muscles to make the process smoother.

Let her take a deep breath, then gently insert the butt plug as she exhales. Once inserted, make sure her body can move freely. Use it in BDSM master-slave game for discreet stimulation. But whether you wear it for a short time or for a long time, make sure it is comfortable and can be adjusted or removed at any time.

(4) Removing the plug

Pull out the butt plug

When you are ready to remove the butt plug, add some lubricant around her anus, then gently grasp the base and slowly remove it while she exhales. After removal, wash it thoroughly with warm water and soap and then store it properly.

If you feel slight discomfort after using the butt plug, this is normal and the symptoms usually subside on their own within a day. However, if the pain persists, it is recommended to consult a doctor as soon as possible to ensure safety.

3. Why do more and more people like to use anal plugs?

Butt plug and penis in double holes

A simple but true answer: Butt plugs can bring unprecedented sexual pleasure.

The anus is rich in nerve endings and is adjacent to the prostate or G-spot. Therefore, proper anal stimulation can bring great sexual pleasure.

  1. Prostate stimulation: Use an anal plug to stimulate the prostate, enjoy the ultimate sexual pleasure, and trigger male orgasm.
  2. Double penetration: During sexual intercourse with a woman, the vagina and anus can be penetrated at the same time, enjoying the stimulation from both holes. Many women enjoy the sexual pleasure. In reality, double penetration may be somewhat difficult, but wearing an anal plug can achieve this sexual stimulation without adding extra difficulty.
  3. Role Playing: In BDSM master-slave games, the master will ask the slave to wear the butt plug for a specific period and not to remove it even during daily activities.
  4. Use before anal sex: Butt plugs can also help dilate the anus before anal sex, which reduces discomfort, injury and makes penetration smoother. Remember to use lubrication during anal sex and be patient.

4. Rules for using anal plugs

Basic rules: safety and hygiene

Anal sex cleaning

Cleaning is the first step before using a butt plug. It is recommended to use a cleansing device to inject water into the anus, hold for a few seconds, and then release. Repeat this process until the expelled water runs clear. Always apply a sufficient amount of lubricant to reduce friction during use, and thoroughly clean the butt plug after use.

Master and Servant Game: Setting up a safe word

Whether it is a sex game to enhance sexual pleasure or a BDSM master-slave game, setting a safe word is important to ensure that both partners can enjoy pleasure and remain safe. A safe word is a pre-agreed word that can be used immediately when the slave feels uncomfortable or needs to stop the game. Both of you should respect this word and stop or adjust the game immediately when hearing it.

Adding control to anal orgasms in BDSM games

Vaginal and anal penetration

The nerves in the anus can transmit intense pleasure when stimulated. Combining role-playing with specific sex positions can make master-slave games more interesting. Here are a few butt plug play suggestions that can help you achieve an anal orgasm and make your BDSM experience better.

1. Control and Obedience

The master can design a situation where the slave plays a role that must be obeyed unconditionally, while the master is the authority in control of everything. In this setting, the butt plug can be used as a tool for the master to punish or reward the slave.

For example, the master can order the slave to wear an anal plug during the entire game, and decide whether to allow an anal orgasm based on her performance. This can greatly enhance the slave’s sense of dependence and obedience, and adds excitement to the games..

2. Public or secret pleasures

Anal Butt Plug in Public

In BDSM master-slave games, shame is a big highlight. You can introduce anal orgasm play into more public or semi-public scenes to enhance the slave’s shame. For example, you can let her wear an anal plug in public and instruct her to maintain normal behavior without being noticed. This will produce stronger psychological stimulation, so it also requires more trust and understanding between both partners.

3. Multiple Orgasms

Anal plug vaginal sex

Anal orgasms aren’t the only orgasmic experience. By combining other sensitive areas such as breasts, you can give her multiple orgasms. BDSM game uses products like anal beads to let your partner control the intensity and rhythm of stimulation, gradually increasing the senses. This multiple stimulation not only allows her to reach orgasm physically, but also deepens her connection with the master psychologically, making the whole process more intimate and tense.